So here we are just weeks away from the Election and I have only defriended ONE person. Which is amazing for me because I do go through rabid defriending binges at least once or twice a year. However in this political season I'm proud to have only defriended one person for political reasons.
Now I realize that with 350 friends, there are a few Republicans in there, and they would would be loathe to put their party propaganda on my page, and I thank them for not doing so. However, there is one group of Republicans I have disdain for: Log Cabin ones.
|But it leaves such a bitter after -taste|
Sigh, Log Cabin Republicans.....as a gay man I should embrace all the diversity of the rainbow flag: Black, Latino, Asian, gayness in its myriad forms. To the effeminate man who collects Lladro, and the big muscular leather queen, I should embrace you. I should welcome all of my brothers into the big bear hug of gayness. I should be inclusive and tolerant. I want to think that we all have common cause in our struggle for equality.
Yet alas, I can't feel that way about Log-Cabin Republicans. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with other Republicans. The heterosexual housewife in Houston, the banker, even my real-estate agent are all dyed-in the wool Republicans and embrace many values that I wholeheartedly disagree with. I find I can be accepting and loving of all of them. Yet, no matter how hard I try, I cannot fully embrace a Gay Republican.
I don't know why, but they just make me feel icky. They spout off about "waiting our turn" for equal rights, or "it's not time yet." Worse they tell me, and use religious language about how wrong gay-marriage is. Really? These are guys who advocate "acting straight" and "try to fit in." You know acting straight and fitting in is a form of oppression I don't embrace. Uncle Tom's Log Cabin if you ask me.
Then they get all hurt and say "what about your Liberal tolerance? You're supposed to love my gayness." I may be liberal, but I don't have to tolerate assholes gay or non-gay who don't agree with my hope to be an equal citizen someday. Especially assholes who should be embracing myself, my relationship and my family. There is no evidence whatsoever that gays in the GOP have made a single iota of difference in the anti-gay stance of the Republican party. To me it seems self-hating.
Yeah, argue about smaller government,entitlements and less regulations all you want, you can do that as an Independent, Libertarian or even as a Democrat. The anti-gay measures and rhetoric in the Republican party indicate some form of self-shame, Mr. Log Cabin Republican, but also shame of the gay part of me as well. No, I don't think we can be friends and I'm not sorry.
You know what? I don't have to give a reason, it's my Face Book page. Defriended.